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• 2025 May 09 the incorrigible optimist
• 2025 May 07 "what the living do" by marie howe
• 2025 May 06 on the cusp
• 2025 May 05 i pretend i do not see it
• 2025 May 05 no hace falta tan poco
• 2025 May 01 back so soon?
• 2025 Apr 27 what are we even doing here? (forest hills, murray hill)
• 2025 Apr 20 the first days of spring
• 2025 Apr 19 cannery row (monterey)
• 2025 Apr 14 "cryptography" by anne farnsworth
• 2025 Apr 14 weary of listening to the nonsense (carmel)
• 2025 Apr 12 lost causes
• 2025 Apr 11 i’ll look for you in san francisco
• 2025 Apr 10 california, i’m coming home
• 2025 Apr 07 april showers
• 2025 Apr 06 the promised land
• 2025 Apr 06 a day of detours (moma, nypl, elmhurst food crawl)
• 2025 Apr 04 crave sourdough (clinton hill)
• 2025 Mar 30 go skateboarding (chinatown food crawl)
• 2025 Mar 30 sunset blvd
• 2025 Mar 26 leif ove andsnes @ carnegie hall
• 2025 Mar 25 expecting rain
• 2025 Mar 24 hello and goodbye, audiobooks
• 2025 Mar 22 nobuyuki tsujii @ carnegie hall
• 2025 Mar 21 foggy day
• 2025 Mar 18 hip-hopping out of my comfort zone
• 2025 Mar 17 the guggenheim + albertine
• 2025 Mar 16 a man with no alibi
• 2025 Mar 04 you better get back, honky cat
• 2025 Mar 01 ⭐️ killing the group chat (again)
• 2025 Feb 28 where have you been, my blue-skied sun
• 2025 Feb 26 quick, make a wish / a shooting star
• 2025 Feb 24 please do not die now
• 2025 Feb 23 call her green (a day in ridgewood)
• 2025 Feb 20 conditional friendships
• 2025 Feb 17 eggland's best
• 2025 Feb 16 signs of life
• 2025 Feb 10 steaming from inside out
• 2025 Feb 09 the first proper snowfall
• 2025 Feb 08 i'll be wrong about everything
• 2025 Feb 02 (following the) blood on the tracks
• 2025 Jan 31 everything ate everything else with a furious exuberance
• 2025 Jan 29 work therapy
• 2025 Jan 28 what we talk about when we talk about love
• 2025 Jan 25 a night at the opera
• 2025 Jan 25 learning english as a 1.5st language (re: lili)
• 2025 Jan 24 look how far we've come (500 posts later)
• 2025 Jan 24 the bear blog question challenge
• 2025 Jan 21 for time is the longest distance between two places
• 2025 Jan 20 the gods wait to delight in you
• 2025 Jan 16 love is believing in their reality
• 2025 Jan 14 tomorrow is a long time
• 2025 Jan 12 please come again soon
• 2025 Jan 11 listening to disappointment
• 2025 Jan 10 dark winter days
• 2025 Jan 08 a bird without a nest
• 2025 Jan 06 ⭐️ i want; i hate that i do (the crane wife)
• 2025 Jan 04 ⭐️ seeking happyness in the pursuit
• 2025 Jan 02 receding treelines
• 2024 Dec 31 24 notes for the year
• 2024 Dec 31 '24 reading year in review
• 2024 Dec 30 a complete unknown
• 2024 Dec 29 my heart has joined the thousand (dear N)
• 2024 Dec 26 every love story is a ghost story
• 2024 Dec 24 more to life
• 2024 Dec 22 home for the holidays
• 2024 Dec 19 looking into the lost forgotten years
• 2024 Dec 17 it was warm food on a cold day
• 2024 Dec 16 returning to the land of the well
• 2024 Dec 09 ⭐️ toeing the edges of my comfort zone
• 2024 Dec 07 "greenland" by kyle seamus brosnihan
• 2024 Dec 07 "coming home" by mary oliver
• 2024 Dec 05 "from one stranger to another" by kyle seamus brosnihan
• 2024 Dec 04 somebody said dignity was the first to leave
• 2024 Dec 03 "tomorrow is a place" by sanna wani
• 2024 Dec 02 back to december
• 2024 Nov 30 the absurdity of the asian potluck
• 2024 Nov 30 lying to myself
• 2024 Nov 28 you have decided being scared is caused mostly by thinking
• 2024 Nov 27 "wild geese" by mary oliver
• 2024 Nov 26 great migrations
• 2024 Nov 24 if you give a misu a cookie (or ten)
• 2024 Nov 23 in every language there is a word for it
• 2024 Nov 20 tempting the street food gods
• 2024 Nov 17 ⭐️ shop like an artist
• 2024 Nov 17 how fragile, we bloom
• 2024 Nov 14 ⭐️ if this isn't nice, i don't know what is
• 2024 Nov 13 "the more loving one" by w. h. auden
• 2024 Nov 12 "for the children" by gary snyder
• 2024 Nov 12 "everything" by sharon olds
• 2024 Nov 11 stay the course
• 2024 Nov 09 se acercan tiempos oscuros (el finde)
• 2024 Nov 08 reclaiming things for myself
• 2024 Nov 07 not because i should
• 2024 Nov 06 the pangs of your sadness will pass as your senses will rise
• 2024 Nov 05 so which is the lie? silence or time?
• 2024 Nov 04 brownies à la mode
• 2024 Nov 02 life's little apologies
• 2024 Oct 31 dissociating scaries
• 2024 Oct 31 i hope happiness is always in all your corners
• 2024 Oct 30 the eighth letter (rilke)
• 2024 Oct 29 take your kids to work day
• 2024 Oct 29 happiness economies and inner sanctums
• 2024 Oct 28 is the sky still blue?
• 2024 Oct 27 now that you’re away, i’ll just spend my life not knowing
• 2024 Oct 26 try stay longer
• 2024 Oct 26 of course we will hurt each other
• 2024 Oct 26 what about the plans we made?
• 2024 Oct 22 chicken noodle soup for the soul
• 2024 Oct 22 clippings from “against narrative”
• 2024 Oct 21 blood work
• 2024 Oct 20 “this is how writers fall in love”
• 2024 Oct 20 surcharge for bad taste
• 2024 Oct 18 wake up calls
• 2024 Oct 14 what they really enjoy is feeling proof against it
• 2024 Oct 12 the best mutz in hoboken
• 2024 Oct 09 yip yip (a:tla in concert)
• 2024 Oct 08 not on my lunch break
• 2024 Oct 06 timely!!
• 2024 Oct 06 the great jack-o'-lantern blaze
• 2024 Oct 01 twenty-four hours
• 2024 Sep 29 don't leave me, september
• 2024 Sep 23 walking the walk
• 2024 Sep 20 missed time
• 2024 Sep 20 there are many ways to change the world
• 2024 Sep 18 although of course you end up [not knowing] yourself
• 2024 Sep 16 strings pulling me this way and that
• 2024 Sep 11 what i'm grasping for is not a place, but a feeling
• 2024 Sep 05 will you miss me when i’m gone?
• 2024 Sep 03 coffee chats and donut dates
• 2024 Aug 26 oh, the towering feeling
• 2024 Aug 23 everything you've ever wanted is on the other side of fear
• 2024 Aug 21 the winds of change are blowing wild and free
• 2024 Aug 16 do you love something if you don't miss it when it's gone?
• 2024 Aug 12 i am happy when you are all happy
• 2024 Aug 12 mild case of the sunday scaries
• 2024 Aug 11 incroyable!
• 2024 Aug 10 there is no secret
• 2024 Aug 09 clippings from east of eden (part 3 - chapter 24)
• 2024 Aug 09 cuando el pobre lava, llueve
• 2024 Aug 04 (now a) shakshuka purveyor
• 2024 Aug 03 ignorance is bliss
• 2024 Aug 02 the strip mall of your dreams
• 2024 Aug 01 be first a good animal
• 2024 Jul 30 it was loud yet quiet
• 2024 Jul 28 dreaming of a low country boil
• 2024 Jul 28 do not fear the scales (400 posts!)
• 2024 Jul 27 writing my thinking
• 2024 Jul 26 suffering in imagination and reality
• 2024 Jul 24 little mermaid
• 2024 Jul 20 cauliflowers and other tiny beautiful things
• 2024 Jul 19 crossover events
• 2024 Jul 17 goodbye to all that
• 2024 Jul 16 ⭐️ i know love as a fading thing
• 2024 Jul 15 where wouldn’t we go to be no one and those people again?
• 2024 Jul 14 reacquainting myself with my first love
• 2024 Jul 12 en qué arrabal te me escondiste
• 2024 Jul 09 ¡qué palta!
• 2024 Jul 07 slapping watermelons
• 2024 Jul 07 clippings from bookbear express
• 2024 Jul 06 protecting my weekends
• 2024 Jul 05 do you remember when
• 2024 Jul 05 one month of work
• 2024 Jul 04 we the people, or something
• 2024 Jul 01 "go to the limits of your longing" by rainer maria rilke
• 2024 Jun 30 le cygne (prospect park)
• 2024 Jun 29 a night at the opera (outdoors)
• 2024 Jun 29 struggling with the scale
• 2024 Jun 28 letter “to nicholas hughes [undated 1986]”
• 2024 Jun 27 “love after love” by david walcott
• 2024 Jun 27 this love is strong, why do i feel weak?
• 2024 Jun 26 você quer jogar comigo?
• 2024 Jun 23 potted plant therapy
• 2024 Jun 21 waiting for the next event on my calendar to arrive
• 2024 Jun 19 roosevelt island (photos)
• 2024 Jun 19 settling in, and more vinyls
• 2024 Jun 18 on not knowing what to do in the city with everything
• 2024 Jun 16 and the voices in his head began to sing
• 2024 Jun 16 what you have now was once among the things you only hoped for
• 2024 Jun 15 reader request: my note-taking system
• 2024 Jun 14 sit still, look pretty
• 2024 Jun 13 there are weeks where decades happen
• 2024 Jun 12 counting my blessings
• 2024 Jun 11 so it begins (pick one)
• 2024 Jun 10 2-5x happiness increases are possible (first day jitters)
• 2024 Jun 09 gantry plaza state park
• 2024 Jun 09 looking back over a lifetime, you see that love was the answer to everything
• 2024 Jun 09 great american scream machines (astoria park carnival)
• 2024 Jun 08 parecen viernes
• 2024 Jun 05 nothing nonnegotiable
• 2024 Jun 04 in my lame duck era (& when does the frog jump out of the pot?)
• 2024 May 31 who's afraid of a big bad word?
• 2024 May 29 gutting my wardrobe + clippings from cannery row
• 2024 May 23 大连 photo dump
• 2024 May 23 沈阳 photo dump (mostly 老北市)
• 2024 May 22 tokyo, day 3: roppongi, harajuku (again), lidabashi
• 2024 May 22 tokyo, day 2: asakusa, oshiage, shibuya, harajuku
• 2024 May 21 tokyo, day 0-1: ginza, tsukiji, ueno
• 2024 May 17 even the dustiest of streets has a place in memory
• 2024 May 17 re: the fear of audience expectations, by gabby
• 2024 May 16 not all who wander are lost
• 2024 May 16 skinny dipping with the elderly
• 2024 May 14 hard pills to swallow
• 2024 May 13 we don’t get to choose our memories
• 2024 May 11 the dust bowl
• 2024 May 11 a long uncomfortable look in the mirror
• 2024 May 10 the homecoming pauper
• 2024 May 10 flying back one hour and fourteen years
• 2024 May 08 sumimasening my way around
• 2024 May 04 the fragility of all we hold dear
• 2024 May 02 are we still playing soccer that sunny june afternoon?
• 2024 May 01 euphoria
• 2024 Apr 29 suffering because i fear
• 2024 Apr 28 a most lazy sunday
• 2024 Apr 27 there may be more beautiful times
• 2024 Apr 26 do you smell the smoke?
• 2024 Apr 25 the premortem
• 2024 Apr 24 because every day is all there is
• 2024 Apr 23 excerpt from "john wayne: a love song"
• 2024 Apr 14 the faces gone with the wind
• 2024 Apr 13 ésa es la vida que te tocó vivir
• 2024 Apr 12 a monkey in silk
• 2024 Apr 10 do it franticly (sic) / you will live
• 2024 Apr 10 the promises we leave behind (sf recap)
• 2024 Apr 08 death of a bachelorette
• 2024 Apr 03 the water is spangles off soft blue
• 2024 Mar 31 these are the days that must happen to you
• 2024 Mar 30 not everything is as it seems
• 2024 Mar 28 paid in blood
• 2024 Mar 27 sixty minutes to make life fair
• 2024 Mar 26 ¿será que estamos mal / y somos indefensos?
• 2024 Mar 24 bajo el cielo de kukulcan (cancún, day 3)
• 2024 Mar 24 cancún, day 2: playa del niño, palacio municipal
• 2024 Mar 21 "Mango" - La Lá (lyrics/letra en/es)
• 2024 Mar 16 si vivo cien años, cien años pienso en ti (cancún, day 1)
• 2024 Mar 16 cancún, day 0
• 2024 Mar 14 slumping my way into vacation
• 2024 Mar 12 attention, not time, is my love language
• 2024 Mar 08 practically running a dog hotel at this point
• 2024 Mar 06 my cup runneth over
• 2024 Mar 05 voir dire and jury duty
• 2024 Mar 03 branded on my feet
• 2024 Feb 29 re: things to think about when blogging
• 2024 Feb 28 if you give a mayfly a minute
• 2024 Feb 27 dreaming of saturn
• 2024 Feb 26 wild old dogs
• 2024 Feb 25 three hundred posts (!) + (more) kind reader advice
• 2024 Feb 23 damned if i do, damned if i don't
• 2024 Feb 22 on being a "no sabo" kid
• 2024 Feb 21 happyb rthday
• 2024 Feb 19 the unbearable fullness of being [a glutton]
• 2024 Feb 16 that funny feeling again
• 2024 Feb 14 love in the time of tinder
• 2024 Feb 12 life, liberty, and the pursuit of rush tickets
• 2024 Feb 09 nobody knows you when you're down and out
• 2024 Feb 08 (in which i get) free interview practice
• 2024 Feb 07 still believe in good days
• 2024 Feb 07 what if i hate who i'm becoming / and my young heart never runs free?
• 2024 Feb 04 actor-observer bias + "be a goldfish"
• 2024 Feb 03 sitting on dogs, again
• 2024 Feb 01 lasciate ogne speranza, voi ch'intrate
• 2024 Jan 31 feeling flat
• 2024 Jan 29 30 day song challenge
• 2024 Jan 27 the last paycheck
• 2024 Jan 26 blank cards
• 2024 Jan 25 it turns out forks are fucking everywhere
• 2024 Jan 24 recalibrating my job hunt with helpful reader advice
• 2024 Jan 23 coding again, from the writer that doesn't write
• 2024 Jan 22 falling down the stairs
• 2024 Jan 21 what's important is seldom urgent
• 2024 Jan 20 you can't write a good story following a formula
• 2024 Jan 19 back to high school
• 2024 Jan 18 winter cravings + models overtrained on men/women
• 2024 Jan 17 hug your loved ones tighter for me
• 2024 Jan 16 on writing forever and being a good Bear citizen
• 2024 Jan 15 observations from two weeks of writing everyday
• 2024 Jan 14 in which i learn that dogwalking is harder than i anticipated
• 2024 Jan 13 re: playing at work, by sam wonders
• 2024 Jan 12 ⭐ what i wish someone had told me in high school
• 2024 Jan 11 hedging for happiness + a menu of joys
• 2024 Jan 10 ⭐️ what happens to a dream deferred?
• 2024 Jan 09 a writing tool + re: make them reject you
• 2024 Jan 08 never use a verb other than "said" to carry dialogue
• 2024 Jan 07 you will have a better life if you just stay home (or maybe not)
• 2024 Jan 06 saying goodbye to the holidays
• 2024 Jan 05 hotpot and imposter syndrome
• 2024 Jan 04 shooting blind
• 2024 Jan 03 don't miss more than a day in a row
• 2024 Jan 02 40 questions to ask yourself every year, '23 ed.
• 2024 Jan 01 looking back at my blogging in '23
• 2023 Dec 31 荒唐的是我沒有辦法遺忘
• 2023 Dec 30 in search of lost time
• 2023 Dec 26 let us strive for the company of immortals
• 2023 Dec 25 there are no accidents
• 2023 Dec 23 who are you that i should have to lie?
• 2023 Dec 22 my '23 reading year in review
• 2023 Dec 21 losartan
• 2023 Dec 19 medicine's unwanted child
• 2023 Dec 18 hello linux, my old friend
• 2023 Dec 16 mint mobile, one month in
• 2023 Dec 15 pulp fiction
• 2023 Dec 15 to hell and back
• 2023 Dec 10 laissez les bons temps rouler
• 2023 Dec 08 i am not a mere event on your calendar
• 2023 Dec 07 the second life of third spaces
• 2023 Dec 05 ⭐️ winter things (on secret santa)
• 2023 Dec 05 spotify wrapped
• 2023 Dec 02 this is one way to dance
• 2023 Nov 29 just hand me down, give me a place to be
• 2023 Nov 27 some people like fruitcake, too
• 2023 Nov 26 the blog goes monochrome
• 2023 Nov 25 black friday
• 2023 Nov 23 the hurting kind
• 2023 Nov 20 metamorfosis, mi amor, metamorfosis
• 2023 Nov 14 playing football with my head for a change
• 2023 Nov 13 sometimes human beings have to just sit in one place and, like, hurt
• 2023 Nov 12 azelf, please
• 2023 Nov 11 writing slump and imposter syndrome
• 2023 Nov 10 a poem? for me?
• 2023 Nov 10 what's that ringing I hear in my ears?
• 2023 Nov 09 audentes fortuna iuvat
• 2023 Nov 07 things I will not miss about my last job: a running list
• 2023 Nov 06 burnout and black friday
• 2023 Nov 05 which roads have you taken to avoid your destiny?
• 2023 Nov 04 assorted snippets
• 2023 Nov 04 crafting the life i want to live
• 2023 Nov 03 wrestling with google photos, again
• 2023 Nov 03 some dimitrov poems, i think
• 2023 Nov 02 waiting for '24
• 2023 Nov 01 "the summer you learned to swim" by michael simms
• 2023 Oct 30 climbing the cantril ladder
• 2023 Oct 29 puerto rico in photos, october '23
• 2023 Oct 26 colanders of constellations
• 2023 Oct 25 lifting my leaden eyelids
• 2023 Oct 23 ⭐ hanging on in quiet desperation
• 2023 Oct 14 desolation row
• 2023 Oct 13 hater's anthem
• 2023 Oct 11 i wasn't born to lose you
• 2023 Oct 11 a very kind email i received
• 2023 Oct 11 eating the frog
• 2023 Oct 10 culling my inbox + my favorite email newsletters
• 2023 Oct 09 tell me, how do you spend that precious dollar of yours?
• 2023 Oct 07 how to check total wordcount across all files in a folder
• 2023 Oct 07 ⭐ looking back on 100k words
• 2023 Oct 07 this week has been, without a doubt, one of the weeks of my life
• 2023 Oct 07 ⭐ gracias, señora
• 2023 Oct 06 the sick get sicker
• 2023 Oct 05 sea u later, seattle ('23 sep)
• 2023 Oct 03 X. I want from love only the beginning
• 2023 Oct 02 my disappointment knows no bounds
• 2023 Oct 01 new car day
• 2023 Sep 30 sephora nights and early flights
• 2023 Sep 28 ⭐ i can't help it if i'm lucky
• 2023 Sep 27 hard rain
• 2023 Sep 20 on having the ball at my feet again
• 2023 Sep 18 communication is lossy by default
• 2023 Sep 17 honey and memory
• 2023 Sep 15 the fears are paper tigers
• 2023 Sep 14 trading in the dregs of my dignity
• 2023 Sep 13 "stone love" by louise erdrich
• 2023 Sep 12 the horrors persist, but so do i
• 2023 Sep 10 ⭐ vinyl records and the diderot effect
• 2023 Sep 07 love poems on chocolate bars
• 2023 Sep 05 no, i haven't gone to therapy yet (but i want to try)
• 2023 Sep 04 labor day '23 and restful time off
• 2023 Aug 30 reading as an escape
• 2023 Aug 28 hiding in plain sight
• 2023 Aug 27 sports with the elderly
• 2023 Aug 20 fighting autopilot
• 2023 Aug 19 "stationery" by agha shahid ali
• 2023 Aug 18 "mind and heart" by charles bukowski
• 2023 Aug 17 "in my next life let me be a tomato" by natasha rao
• 2023 Aug 16 "misty" by rosemerry wahtola trommer
• 2023 Aug 16 few places in this world are more dangerous than home
• 2023 Aug 13 home sweet home
• 2023 Aug 08 i used chatGPT for the first time
• 2023 Aug 07 moving out blues
• 2023 Jul 31 time is a jet plane, it moves too fast
• 2023 Jul 29 impromptu karaoke sessions
• 2023 Jul 28 ⭐ laundry day and errand hangs
• 2023 Jul 27 no more takis
• 2023 Jul 25 writing my memoirs
• 2023 Jul 24 a sad game of phone tag
• 2023 Jul 23 seeing stars and fighting back tears
• 2023 Jul 23 un bel dì, vedremo
• 2023 Jul 22 i faint in the worst of places
• 2023 Jul 18 motel blues
• 2023 Jul 15 lord of the (fruit) flies
• 2023 Jul 14 ⭐ pay it forward! (the miracle of the lost vinyl)
• 2023 Jul 13 i love you, richard parker
• 2023 Jul 08 coney island and khao mun gai
• 2023 Jul 07 some physical trauma to go with the emotional
• 2023 Jul 06 how do i help future Me?
• 2023 Jul 03 the best $12 i ever spent
• 2023 Jun 30 why i try to write in plaintext
• 2023 Jun 29 ⭐ why diversity matters
• 2023 Jun 28 "just take it one day at a time" (inertia for breakups)
• 2023 Jun 27 dealing with contempt
• 2023 Jun 26 pride weekend '23 in nyc
• 2023 Jun 23 let us weep
• 2023 Jun 21 moving on is hard + thank you notes
• 2023 Jun 20 grocery lists (nyc day 28)
• 2023 Jun 19 happy juneteenth (nyc day 27)
• 2023 Jun 15 yesterday was not a good day to fly (nyc day 23)
• 2023 Jun 14 i get too attached to material things
• 2023 Jun 13 ⭐ from boston with love
• 2023 Jun 08 Lenin and relationships
• 2023 Jun 07 orange skies (nyc day 21)
• 2023 Jun 06 every day we stray further from god's light... (nyc day 20)
• 2023 Jun 05 take care of yourself so you don't get sick like me (nyc day 18 & 19)
• 2023 Jun 03 ask away, my dear readers (nyc day 16 & 17)
• 2023 Jun 02 authority blinds + classical conditioning for friendships
• 2023 Jun 01 homesick and drowning in work (nyc day 15)
• 2023 May 31 journaling from bushwick inlet park (nyc day 14)
• 2023 May 30 how do you view your time?
• 2023 May 29 memorial day weekend in dc
• 2023 May 25 and somehow, a bad day to (maybe) top them all (nyc day 13)
• 2023 May 24 the city will test your resolve
• 2023 May 23 shame on CLEAR for dishonest, predatory sales tactics
• 2023 May 22 ⭐ working from the empire state building (nyc day 12)
• 2023 May 21 don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm (nyc day 11)
• 2023 May 20 rainy days in new york (nyc day 10)
• 2023 May 19 self-disclosing more when responding to "how are you?"
• 2023 May 19 "i am running into a new year" by lucille clifton
• 2023 May 19 i found a therapist! (nyc day 9)
• 2023 May 18 you can be sad and lonely, even in new york city (nyc day 8)
• 2023 May 17 first time at the laundromat (nyc day 7)
• 2023 May 16 "together and by ourselves" by alex dimitrov
• 2023 May 16 the L train gives me (more) trust issues (nyc day 6)
• 2023 May 15 stillness is in short supply here (nyc day 5)
• 2023 May 14 "august" by alex dimitrov
• 2023 May 14 sundays are for trader joe's pilgrimages (nyc day 4)
• 2023 May 13 let's get lost in new york (nyc days 1-3)
• 2023 May 13 "the years" by alex dimitrov
• 2023 May 12 "monday," by alex dimitrov
• 2023 May 11 "days and nights" by alex dimitrov
• 2023 May 10 "december" by alex dimitrov
• 2023 May 06 "in the exodus I love you more" by mahmoud darwish
• 2023 May 05 ⭐ the glass is already broken
• 2023 May 04 don't put up with people who are reckless with your heart
• 2023 May 03 20 signs you're emotionally mature (notes from the school of life video)
• 2023 May 02 ⭐ the not-so-tough love of immigrant parents
• 2023 May 01 ⭐ 5 tips for comforting a heartbroken friend
• 2023 Apr 30 going through the 5 stages of grief
• 2023 Apr 29 ⭐ lessons from 100 (!) posts on bear
• 2023 Apr 28 "it's the season i often mistake" by ada limón
• 2023 Apr 27 email is (still) king
• 2023 Apr 26 everything i’ve ever let go of has claw marks on it
• 2023 Apr 25 saving earthworms
• 2023 Apr 24 ⭐ resisting instant gratification
• 2023 Apr 23 "the crunch" by charles bukowski (an excerpt from)
• 2023 Apr 22 the way i need you is a loneliness i cannot bear
• 2023 Apr 21 write hard and clear about what hurts
• 2023 Apr 20 you'll never have all the answers you seek
• 2023 Apr 19 grief comes in waves
• 2023 Apr 18 the taoist parable of the old man and his horse
• 2023 Apr 17 ⭐ who do i address blog posts to?
• 2023 Apr 13 on becoming desensitized to bigotry
• 2023 Apr 12 what does it mean to move on?
• 2023 Apr 11 what's the best beginner fountain pen?
• 2023 Apr 10 draw your material desires
• 2023 Apr 09 ⭐ hemingway on writing
• 2023 Apr 08 oh misery's mine
• 2023 Apr 08 maybe pain is just a lack of understanding
• 2023 Apr 05 "LSD" by alex dimitrov
• 2023 Apr 04 "winter solstice" by alex dimitrov
• 2023 Apr 03 "small kindnesses" by danusha laméris
• 2023 Apr 01 ⭐ you don't know what you've got till it's gone
• 2023 Mar 28 "the mower" by philip larkin
• 2023 Mar 11 santiago, chile in photos, august 2019
• 2023 Mar 10 "won't you celebrate with me" by lucille clifton
• 2023 Feb 24 ⭐ show the inside of your head in public
• 2023 Feb 23 ⭐ you don't have to fail with abandon
• 2023 Feb 22 ⭐ why i use cheap notebooks
• 2023 Feb 21 ⭐ showing love sometimes means shutting up
• 2023 Feb 06 ⭐ how i deal with "writer's block"
• 2023 Feb 05 the enshittification of everything
• 2023 Jan 25 covid-19 rebound and revisiting pokémon
• 2023 Jan 20 migrating passwords to keepassxc
• 2023 Jan 14 in praise of fickle fans
• 2023 Jan 09 doing my time with covid-19
• 2022 Dec 28 goodhart's law, or the unintended consequences of your goals
• 2022 Dec 20 the types of videogames i like
• 2022 Dec 19 tom sachs: finding the inspiration of your inspiration
• 2022 Dec 08 warm december
• 2022 Dec 05 my spotify wrapped '22
• 2022 Dec 04 on making wishlists
• 2022 Dec 03 why i only use plain black wallpapers
• 2022 Dec 02 elon's 6 sigma rules for productivity
• 2022 Dec 01 van neistat's 12 rules of gifting
• 2022 Nov 28 thanksgiving postmortem
• 2022 Nov 21 what you give up for those sweet black friday savings
• 2022 Nov 17 questions to ask before making any purchase
• 2022 Nov 15 do you draft cards & letters before you write them?
• 2022 Nov 14 ⭐ curiosity is a curse
• 2022 Nov 13 nostalgia, ultra
• 2022 Nov 12 drive with a world cup commentator!
• 2022 Nov 10 temper your schadenfreude
• 2022 Nov 09 who turned out the sun?
• 2022 Nov 04 how to be a good rideshare driver
• 2022 Oct 31 ⭐ pretending to work
• 2022 Oct 30 some of my favorite photos from 2021
• 2022 Oct 28 ⭐ my love-hate relationship with mechanical watches
• 2022 Oct 26 my cloud storage crisis
• 2022 Oct 24 ⭐ an ode to that "coffee friend"
• 2022 Oct 23 how i use a windows keyboard with a mac
• 2022 Oct 20 puerto rico in photos, october '22
• 2022 Oct 11 ⭐ some of my writing inspirations
• 2022 Oct 10 getting my 'first' electric toothbrush
• 2022 Oct 09 getting old sucks
• 2022 Oct 08 reflections on decluttering
• 2022 Sep 29 business travel is not as fun as it sounds
• 2022 Sep 27 pay attention to your server's name
• 2022 Sep 26 my favorite two slogans from '68 france
• 2022 Sep 26 how (not) to approach dogs
• 2022 Sep 23 a better way to bypass paywalls
• 2022 Sep 22 deleting social media doesn't make you a digital minimalist
• 2022 Sep 20 takeaways from blog semi-virality
• 2022 Sep 16 gricean maxims
• 2022 Sep 15 walking barefoot
• 2022 Sep 13 ⭐ please don't be spooky
• 2022 Sep 12 how i meditate
• 2022 Sep 11 on when i write
• 2022 Sep 08 on eating out alone
• 2022 Sep 03 a beginner's guide to fountain pens
• 2022 Sep 02 takeaways from visiting sf in aug '22
• 2022 Sep 01 follow that rabbit hole
• 2022 Aug 31 on traveling by amtrak
• 2022 Aug 23 pros and cons of using Los Angeles public transit
• 2022 Aug 13 on kongguksu (콩국수) and trying new things
• 2022 Aug 12 should i rent a car on vacation? + a rant about public transit
• 2022 Aug 09 lifetime warranties are (often) scams
• 2022 Aug 05 corporate culture discourages honesty
• 2022 Aug 04 don't take your Uber driver for granted
• 2022 Jul 30 my grilled cheese and tomato soup recipe
• 2022 Jul 27 ⭐ be 'big picture' eco-conscious
• 2022 Jul 14 some lessons from my experience with the American healthcare system
• 2022 Jul 09 how to denote that you've stopped reading a book on Goodreads
• 2022 Jul 08 no dejes que tu felicidad dependa en algo fuera de tu control
• 2022 Jul 04 thunderstorms, fireworks, and mass shootings
• 2022 Jul 04 going mousefree
• 2022 Jul 03 la cantidad tiene su propria calidad
• 2022 Jul 02 los rastros digitales de los muertos
• 2022 Jul 01 el anticonsumismo
• 2022 Jun 30 ¿conoces el lugar donde vives?
• 2022 Jun 29 el ciclo de vida